Friday, 24 September 2021

No 15

 

THE DIARY OF A PROVINCIAL LADY

 


 

         

 

 

 

 

 

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_September 24th._--Frightful welter of packing, putting away, and

earnest consultations of School List. Robin gives everybody serious

injunctions about not touching anything _whatever_ in his

bedroom--which looks like inferior pawnbroking establishment at

stocktaking time--and we all more or less commit ourselves to leaving it

alone till Christmas holidays--which is completely out of the question.

 

He is taken away by Robert in the car, looking forlorn and infantile, and

Vicky roars. I beseech her to desist at once, but am rebuked by

Mademoiselle, who says, "Ah, elle a tant de coeur!" in tone which implies

that she cannot say as much for myself.

 

_October 1._--Tell Robert about proposed short tour to Chick,

Little March, and Crimpington, on behalf of W. Is. He says little, but

that little not very enthusiastic. I spend many hours--or so it

seems--looking out Notes for Talks, and trying to remember anecdotes that

shall be at once funny and suitable. (This combination rather unusual.)

 

Pack small bag, search frantically all over writing-table, bedroom, and

drawing-room for W.I. Badge--which is at last discovered by Mademoiselle

in remote corner of drawer devoted to stockings--and take my departure.

Robert drives me to station, and I beg that he will keep an eye on the

bulbs whilst I am away.

 

_October 2nd._--Bus from Chick conveys me to Little March, after

successful meeting last night, at which I discourse on Amateur

Theatricals, am applauded, thanked by President in the chair--name

inaudible--applauded once more, and taken home by Assistant Secretary,

who is putting me up for the night. We talk about the Movement--Annual

Meeting at Blackpool perhaps a mistake, why not Bristol or

Plymouth?--difficulty of thinking out new Programmes for monthly

meetings, and really magnificent performance of Chick at recent

Folk-dancing Rally, at which Institute members called upon to go through

"Gathering Peas-cods" no less than three times--two of Chick's best

performers, says Assistant Secretary proudly, being grandmothers. I

express astonished admiration, and we go on to Village Halls, Sir Oswald

Mosley, and methods of removing ink-stains from linen. Just as Assistant

Secretary--who is unmarried and lives in nice little cottage--has

escorted me to charming little bedroom, she remembers that I am

eventually going on to Crimpington, and embarks on interesting scandal

about two members of Institute there, and unaccountable disappearance of

one member's name from Committee. This keeps us up till eleven o'clock,

when she begs me to say nothing whatever about her having mentioned the

affair, which was all told her in strictest confidence, and we part.

 

Reach Little March, via the bus--which is old, and rattles--in time for

lunch. Doctor's sister meets me--elderly lady with dog--and talks about

hunting. Meeting takes place at three o'clock, in g delightful Hut, and

am impressed by business-like and efficient atmosphere. Doctor's sister,

in the chair, introduces me--unluckily my name eludes her at eleventh

hour, but I hastily supply it and she says, "Of course, of course"--and I

launch out into A Visit to Switzerland. As soon as I have finished,

elderly member surges up from front row and says that this has been

particularly interesting to _her_, as she once lived in Switzerland

for nearly fourteen years and knows every inch of it from end to end. (My

own experience confined to six weeks round and about Lucerne, ten years

ago.)

 

We drink cups of tea, eat excellent buns, sing several Community Songs,

and Meeting comes to an end. Doctor's sister's two-seater, now altogether

home-like, receives me once again, and I congratulate her on

Institute. She smiles and talks about hunting.

 

Evening passes off quietly, doctor comes in--elderly man with two

dogs--he also talks about hunting, and we all separate for bed at ten

o'clock.

 

_October 3rd._--Part early from doctor, sister, dogs, and

two-seater, and proceed by train to Crimpington, as Meeting does not take

place till afternoon, and have no wish to arrive earlier than I need.

Curious cross-country journey with many stops, and one change involving

long and draughty wait that I enliven by cup of Bovril.

 

Superb car meets me, with superb chauffeur who despises me and my bag at

sight, but is obliged to drive us both to Crimping-ton Hall. Butler

receives me, and I am conducted through immense and chilly hall with

stone flags to equally immense and chilly drawing-room, where he leaves

me. Very small fire is lurking behind steel bars at far end of room, and

I make my way to it past little gilt tables, large chairs, and sofas,

cabinets apparently lined with china cups and lustre tea-pots, and

massive writing-tables entirely furnished with hundreds of photographs in

silver frames. Butler suddenly reappears with the _Times_, which he

hands to me on small salver. Have already read it from end to end in the

train, but feel obliged to open it and begin all over again. He looks

doubtfully at the fire, and I hope he is going to put on more coal, but

instead he goes away, and is presently replaced by Lady Magdalen Crimp,

who is about ninety-five and stone-deaf. She wears black, and large fur

cape--as well she may. She produces trumpet, and I talk down it, and she

smiles and nods, and has evidently not heard one word--which is just as

well, as none of them worth hearing. After some time she suggests my

room, and we creep along slowly for about quarter of a mile, till first

floor is reached, and vast bedroom with old-fashioned four-poster in the

middle of it. Here she leaves me, and I wash, from little brass jug of

tepid water, and note--by no means for the first time--that the use of

powder, when temperature has sunk below a certain level, merely casts

extraordinary azure shade over nose and chin.

 

Faint hope of finding fire in dining-room is extinguished on entering it,

when I am at once struck by its resemblance to a mausoleum. Lady M. and I

sit down at mahogany circular table, she says Do I mind a Cold Lunch? I

shake my head, as being preferable to screaming "No" down trumpet--though

equally far from the truth--and we eat rabbit-cream, coffee-shape, and

Marie biscuits.

 

Conversation spasmodic and unsatisfactory, and I am reduced to looking at

portraits on wall, of gentlemen in wigs and ladies with bosoms, also

objectionable study of dead bird, dripping blood, lying amongst oranges

and other vegetable matter. (Should like to know what dear Rose, with her

appreciation of Art, would say to this.) Later we adjourn to

drawing-room--fire now a mere ember--and Lady M. explains that she is not

going to the Meeting, but Vice-President will look after me, and she

hopes I shall enjoy Recitation Competition--some of our members really

very clever, and one in particular, so amusing in dialect. I nod and

smile, and continue to shiver, and presently car fetches me away to

village. Meeting is held in reading-room, which seems to me perfect

paradise of warmth, and I place myself as close as possible to large

oil-stove. Vice-President--very large and expansive in blue--conducts

everything successfully, and I deliver homily about What Our Children

Read, which is kindly received. After tea--delightfully hot, in fact

scalds me, but I welcome it--Recitation Competition takes place and have

to rivet my attention on successive members, who mount a little platform

and declaim in turns. We begin with not very successful rendering of

verses hitherto unknown to me, entitled "Our Institute", and which turn

out to be original composition of reciter. This followed by "Gunga Din"

and very rousing poem about Keeping the Old Flag Flying. Elderly member

then announces "The Mine" and is very dramatic and impressive, but not

wholly intelligible, which I put down to Dialect. Finally award first

place to "The Old Flag", and second to "The Mine", and present prizes. Am

unfortunately inspired to observe that dialect poems are always so

interesting, and it then turns out that "The Mine" wasn't in dialect at

all. However, too late to do anything about it.

 

Meeting is prolonged, for which I am thankful, but finally can no longer

defer returning to arctic regions of Crimpington Hall. Lady M. and I

spend evening cowering over grate, and exchanging isolated remarks, and

many nods and smiles, across ear-trumpet. Finally I get into enormous

four-poster, covered by very inadequate supply of blankets, and clutching

insufficiently heated hot-water bottle.

 

_October 5th._--Develop really severe cold twenty-four hours after

reaching home. Robert says that all Institutes are probably full of

germs--which is both unjust and ridiculous.

 

_October 13th._--Continued cold and cough keep me in house, and make

me unpopular with Robert, Cook, and Gladys--the latter of whom both catch

my complaint. Mademoiselle keeps Vicky away, but is sympathetic, and

brings Vicky to gesticulate dramatically at me from outside the

drawing-room window, as though I had the plague. Gradually this state of

affairs subsides, my daily quota of pocket-handkerchiefs returns to the

normal, and Vapex, cinnamon, camphorated oil, and jar of cold cream all

go back to medicine-cupboard in bathroom once more.

 

Unknown benefactor sends me copy of new Literary Review, which seems to

be full of personal remarks from well-known writers about other

well-known writers. This perhaps more amusing to themselves than to

average reader. Moreover, competitions most alarmingly literary, and I

return with immense relief to old friend _Time and Tide_.

 

_October 17th._--Surprising invitation to evening party--Dancing,

9.30--at Lady B.'s. Cannot possibly refuse, as Robert has been told to

make himself useful there in various ways; moreover, entire neighbourhood

is evidently being polished off, and see no object in raising question as

to whether we have, or have not, received invitation. Decide to get new

dress, but must have it made locally, owing to rather sharply worded

enquiry from London shop which has the privilege of serving me, as to

whether I have not overlooked overdue portion of account? (Far from

overlooking it, have actually been kept awake by it at night.) Proceed to

Plymouth, and get very attractive black taffeta, with little pink and

blue posies scattered over it. Mademoiselle removes, and washes, Honiton

lace from old purple velvet every-night tea-gown, and assures me that it

will be _gentil á croquer_ on new taffeta. Also buy new pair black

evening-shoes, but shall wear them every evening for at least an hour in

order to ensure reasonable comfort at party.

 

Am able to congratulate myself that great-aunt's diamond ring, for once,

is at home when needed.

 

Robert rather shatteringly remarks that he believes the dancing is only

for the _young_ people, and I heatedly enquire how line of

demarcation is to be laid down? Should certainly not dream of accepting

ruling from Lady B. on any such delicate question. Robert merely repeats

that only the young will be _expected_ to dance, and we drop the

subject, and I enquire into nature of refreshments to be expected at

party, as half-past nine seems to me singularly inhospitable hour,

involving no regular meal whatever. Robert begs that I will order dinner

at home exactly as usual, and make it as substantial as possible, so as

to give him every chance of keeping awake at party, and I agree that this

would indeed appear desirable.

 

_October 9th._--Rumour that Lady B.'s party is to be in Fancy Dress

throws entire neighbourhood into consternation. Our Vicar's wife comes

down on gardener's wife's bicycle--borrowed, she says, for greater speed

and urgency--and explains that, in her position, she does not think that

fancy dress would do at all--unless perhaps _poudré_, which, she

asserts, is different, but takes ages to brush out afterwards. She asks

what I am going to do, but am quite unable to enlighten her, as black

taffeta already completed. Mademoiselle, at this, intervenes, and

declares that black taffeta can be transformed by a touch into Dresden

China Shepherdess _à ravir_. Am obliged to beg her not to be

ridiculous, nor attempt to make me so, and she then insanely suggests

turning black taffeta into costume for (a) Mary Queen of Scots, (b) Mme.

de Pompadour, (c) Cleopatra.

 

I desire her to take Vicky for a walk; she is _blessée_, and much

time is spent in restoring her to calm.

 

Our Vicar's wife--who has meantime been walking up and down drawing-room

in state of stress and agitation--says What about asking somebody else?

What about the Kellways? Why not ring them up?

 

We immediately do so, and are lightheartedly told by Mary Kellway that it

_is_ Fancy Dress, and she is going to wear her Russian Peasant

costume--absolutely genuine, brought by sailor cousin from Moscow long

years ago--but if in difficulties, can she lend me anything? Reply

incoherently to this kind offer, as our Vicar's wife, now in

uncontrollable agitation, makes it impossible for me to collect my

thoughts. Chaos prevails, when Robert enters, is frenziedly appealed to

by our Vicar's wife, and says Oh, didn't he say so? one or two people

_have_ had "Fancy Dress" put on invitation cards, as Lady B.'s own

house-party intends to dress up, but no such suggestion has been made to

majority of guests.

 

Our Vicar's wife and I agree at some length that, really, nobody in this

world _but_ Lady B. would behave like this, and we have very good

minds not to go near her party. Robert and I then arrange to take our

Vicar and his wife with us in car to party, she is grateful, and goes.

 

_October 23rd._--Party takes place. Black taffeta and Honiton lace

look charming and am not dissatisfied with general appearance, after

extracting two quite unmistakable grey hairs. Vicky goes so far, as to

say that I look Lovely, but enquires shortly afterwards why old people so

often wear black--which discourages me.

 

Received by Lady B. in magnificent Eastern costume, with pearls dripping

all over her, and surrounded by bevy of equally bejewelled friends. She

smiles graciously and shakes hands without looking at any of us, and

strange fancy crosses my mind that it would be agreeable to bestow on her

sudden sharp shaking, and thus compel her to recognise existence of at

least one of guests invited to her house. Am obliged, however, to curb

this unhallowed impulse, and proceed quietly into vast drawing-room, at

one end of which band is performing briskly on platform.

 

Our Vicar's wife--violet net and garnets--recognises friends, and takes

our Vicar away to speak to them. Robert is imperatively summoned by Lad y

B.--(Is she going to order him to take charge of cloak room, or

what?)--and I am greeted by an unpleasant-looking Hamlet, who suddenly

turns out to be Miss Pankerton. Why, she asks accusingly, am I not in

fancy dress? It would do me all the good in the world to give myself over

to the Carnival spirit. It is what I _need_. I make enquiry for

Jahsper--should never be surprised to hear that he has come as

Ophelia--but Miss P. replies that Jahsper is in Bloomsbury again.

Bloomsbury can do nothing without Jahsper. I say, No, I suppose not, in

order to avoid hearing any more about either Jahsper or Bloomsbury, and

talk to Mary Kellway--who looks nice in Russian Peasant costume--and

eventually dance with her husband. We see many of our neighbours, most of

them not in fancy dress, and am astounded at unexpected sight of

Blenkinsops' Cousin Maud, bounding round the room with short, stout

partner, identified by Mary's husband as great hunting man.

 

Lady B.'s house-party, all in expensive disguises and looking highly

superior, dance languidly with one another, and no introductions take

place.

 

It later becomes part of Robert's duty to tell everyone that supper is

ready, and we all flock to buffet in dining-room, and are given excellent

sandwiches and unidentified form of cup. Lady B.'s expensive-looking

house-party nowhere to be seen, and Robert tells me in gloomy aside that

he thinks they are in the library, having champagne. I express

charitable--and improbable--hope that it may poison them, to which Robert

merely replies, Hush, not so loud--but should not be surprised to know

that he agrees with me.

 

Final, and most unexpected, incident of the evening is when I come upon

old Mrs. Blenkinsop, all over black jet and wearing martyred expression,

sitting in large armchair underneath platform, and exactly below

energetic saxophone. She evidently has not the least idea how to account

for her presence there, and saxophone prevents conversation, but can

distinguish something about Maud, and not getting between young things

and their pleasure, and reference to old Mrs. B. not having very much

longer to spend amongst us. I smile and nod my head, then feel that this

may look unsympathetic, so frown and shake it, and am invited to dance by

male Frobisher--who talks about old furniture and birds. House-party

reappear, carrying balloons, which they distribute like buns at a

School-feast, and party proceeds until midnight.

 

Band then bursts into Auld Lang Syne and Lady B. screams Come along, Come

along, and all are directed to forma circle. Singular mêlée ensues, and I

see old Mrs. Blenkinsop swept from armchair and clutching our Vicar with

one hand and unknown young gentleman with the other. Our Vicar's wife is

holding hands with Miss Pankerton--whom she cannot endure--and looks

distraught, and Robert is seized upon by massive stranger in scarlet, and

Cousin Maud. Am horrified to realise that I am myself on one side

clasping hand of particularly offensive young male specimen of

house-party, and on the other that of Lady B. We all shuffle round to

well-known strains, and sing For _Ole_ Lang Syne, For _Ole_

Lang Syne, over and over again, since no one appears to know any other

words, and relief is general when this exercise is brought to a close.

 

Lady B., evidently fearing that we shall none of us know when she has had

enough of us, then directs band to play National Anthem, which is done,

and she receives our thanks and farewells.

 

Go home, and on looking at myself in the glass am much struck with

undeniable fact that at the end of a party I do not look nearly as nice

as I did at the beginning. Should like to think that this applies to

every woman, but am not sure--and anyway, this thought ungenerous--like

so many others.

 

Robert says, Why don't I get into Bed? I say, Because I am writing my

Diary. Robert replies, kindly, but quite definitely, that In his opinion,

That is Waste of Time.

 

I get into bed, and am confronted by Query: Can Robert be right?

 

Can only leave reply to Posterity.

 


THE END

 


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