Friday, 25 June 2021

No 2

 

THE DIARY OF A PROVINCIAL LADY

 

PART 2

 

_December 9th._--Rose staying here two days before going on to

London. Says All American houses are Always Warm, which annoys Robert. He

says in return that All American houses are Grossly Overheated and

Entirely Airless. Impossible not to feel that this would carry more

weight if Robert had ever been to America. Rose also very insistent about

efficiency of American Telephone Service, and inclined to ask for glasses

of cold water at breakfast time--which Robert does not approve of.

 

Otherwise dear Rose entirely unchanged and offers to put me up in her

West-End flat as often as I like to come to London. Accept gratefully.

(_N.B._ How very different to old school-friend Cissie Crabbe, with

bed-sitting-room and gas-ring in Norwich! But should not like to think

myself in any way a snob.)

 

On Rose's advice, bring bulb-bowls up from cellar and put them in

drawing-room. Several of them perfectly visible, but somehow do not look

entirely healthy. Rose thinks too much watering. If so, Cissie Crabbe

entirely to blame. (_Mem_.: Either move bulb-bowls upstairs, or tell

Ethel to show Lady Boxe into morning-room, if she calls. Cannot possibly

enter into further discussion with her concerning bulbs.)

 

_December 10th._--Robert, this morning, complains of insufficient

breakfast. Cannot feel that porridge, scrambled eggs, toast, marmalade,

scones, brown bread, and coffee give adequate grounds for this, but admit

that porridge is slightly burnt. How impossible ever to encounter burnt

porridge without vivid recollections of Jane Eyre at Lowood School, say I

parenthetically! This literary allusion not a success. Robert suggests

ringing for Cook, and have greatest difficulty in persuading him that

this course utterly disastrous.

 

Eventually go myself to kitchen, in ordinary course of events, and

approach subject of burnt porridge circuitously and with utmost care.

Cook replies, as I expected, with expressions of astonishment and

incredulity, coupled with assurances that kitchen range is again at

fault. She also says that new double-saucepan, fish-kettle, and nursery

tea-cups are urgently required. Make enquiries regarding recently

purchased nursery tea-set and am shown one handle without cup, saucer in

three pieces, and cup from which large semicircle has apparently been

bitten. Feel that Mademoiselle will be hurt if I pursue enquiries

further. (Note: Extreme sensibility of the French sometimes makes them

difficult to deal with.)

 

Read Life and Letters of distinguished woman recently dead, and am

struck, as so often, by difference between her correspondence and that of

less distinguished women. Immense and affectionate letters from

celebrities on every other page, epigrammatic notes from literary and

political acquaintances, poetical assurances of affection and admiration

from husband, and even infant children. Try to imagine Robert writing in

similar strain in the (improbable) event of my attaining celebrity, but

fail. Dear Vicky equally unlikely to commit her feelings (if any) to

paper.

 

Robin's letter arrives by second post, and am delighted to have it as

ever, but cannot feel that laconic information about boy--unknown to

me--called Baggs, having been swished, and Mr. Gompshaw, visiting master,

being kept away by Sore Throat--is on anything like equal footing with

lengthy and picturesque epistles received almost daily by subject of

biography, whenever absent from home.

 

Remainder of mail consists of one bill from chemist--(_Mem_.: Ask

Mademoiselle why _two_ tubes of Gibbs' Toothpaste within ten

days)--illiterate postcard from piano-tuner, announcing visit to-morrow,

and circular concerning True Temperance.

 

Inequalities of Fate very curious. Should like, on this account, to

believe in Reincarnation. Spend some time picturing to myself completely

renovated state of affairs, with, amongst other improvements, total

reversal of relative positions of Lady B. and myself.

 

(Query: Is thought on abstract questions ever a waste of time?)

 

_December 11th._--Robert, still harping on topic of yesterday's

breakfast, says suddenly Why Not a Ham? to which I reply austerely that a

ham is on order, but will not appear until arrival of R.'s brother

William and his wife, for Christmas visit. Robert, with every

manifestation of horror, says Are William and Angela coming to us for

_Christmas?_ This attitude absurd, as invitation was given months

ago, at Robert's own suggestion.

 

(Query here becomes unavoidable: Does not a misplaced optimism exist,

common to all mankind, leading on to false conviction that social

engagements, if dated sufficiently far ahead, will never really

materialise?)

 

Vicky and Mademoiselle return from walk with small white-and-yellow

kitten, alleged by them homeless and starving. Vicky fetches milk, and

becomes excited. Agree that kitten shall stay "for to-night" but feel

that this is weak.

 

(_Mem_.: Remind Vicky to-morrow that Daddy does not like cats.)

Mademoiselle becomes very French, on subject of cats generally, and am

obliged to check her. She is _blessée_, and all three retire to

schoolroom.

 

_December 12th._--Robert says out of the question to keep stray

kitten. Existing kitchen cat more than enough. Gradually modifies this

attitude under Vicky's pleadings. All now depends on whether kitten is

male or female. Vicky and Mademoiselle declare this is known to them, and

kitten already christened Napoleon. Find myself unable to enter into

discussion on the point in French. The gardener takes opposite view to

Vicky's and Mademoiselle's. They thereupon re-christen the kitten, seen

playing with an old tennis ball, as Helen Wills.

 

Robert's attention, perhaps fortunately, diverted by mysterious trouble

with the water-supply. He says The Ram has Stopped. (This sounds to me

Biblical.)

 

Give Mademoiselle a hint that H. Wills should not be encouraged to put in

injudicious appearances downstairs.

 

_December 13th._--Ram resumes activities. Helen Wills still with us.

 

_December 16th._--Very stormy weather, floods out and many trees

prostrated at inconvenient angles. Call from Lady Boxe, who says that she

is off to the South of France next week, as she Must have Sunshine. She

asks Why I do not go there too, and likens me to piece of chewed string,

which I feel to be entirely inappropriate and rather offensive figure of

speech, though perhaps kindly meant.

 

Why not just pop into the train, enquires Lady B., pop across France, and

pop out into Blue Sky, Blue Sea, and Summer Sun? Could make perfectly

comprehensive reply to this, but do not do so, question of expense having

evidently not crossed Lady B.'s horizon. (_Mem_.: Interesting

subject for debate at Women's Institute, perhaps: That Imagination is

incompatible with Inherited Wealth. On second thoughts, though, fear this

has a socialistic trend.)

 

Reply to Lady B. with insincere professions of liking England very much

even in the Winter. She begs me not to let myself become

parochially-minded.

 

Departure of Lady B. with many final appeals to me to reconsider South of

France. Make civil pretence, which deceives neither of us, of wavering,

and promise to ring her up in the event of a change of mind.

 

(Query: Cannot many of our moral lapses from Truth be frequently charged

upon the tactless persistence of others?)

 

_December 17th, London._--Come up to dear Rose's fiat for two days'

Christmas shopping, after prolonged discussion with Robert, who maintains

that All can equally well be done by Post.

 

Take early train so as to get in extra afternoon. Have with me Robert's

old leather suit-case, own ditto in fibre, large quantity of

chrysanthemums done up in brown paper for .Rose, small packet of

sandwiches, handbag, fur coat in case weather turns cold, book for

journey, and illustrated paper kindly presented by Mademoiselle at the

station. (Query: suggests itself: Could not some of these things have

been dispensed with, and if so which?)

 

Bestow belongings in the rack, and open illustrated paper with sensation

of leisured opulence, derived from unwonted absence of all domestic

duties.

 

Unknown lady enters carriage at first stop, and takes seat opposite. She

has expensive-looking luggage in moderate quantity, and small red morocco

jewel-case, also bran-new copy, without library label, of _Life of Sir

Edward Marshall-Hall_. Am reminded of Lady B. and have recrudescence

of Inferiority Complex.

 

Remaining seats occupied by elderly gentleman wearing spats, nondescript

female in a Burberry, and young man strongly resembling an Arthur Watts

drawing. He looks at a copy of _Punch_, and I spend much time in

wondering if it contains an Arthur Watts drawing and if he is struck by

resemblance, and if so what his reactions are, whether of pain or

gratification.

 

Roused from these unprofitable, but sympathetic, considerations by

agitation on the part of elderly gentleman, who says that, upon his soul,

he is being dripped upon. Everybody looks at ceiling, and Burberry female

makes a vague reference to unspecified "pipes" which she declares often

"go like that". Someone else madly suggests turning off the' heat.

Elderly gentleman refuses all explanations and declares that _It comes

from the rack_. We all look with horror at Rose's chrysanthemums, from

which large drips of water descend regularly. Am overcome with shame,

remove chrysanthemums, apologise to elderly gentleman, and sit down again

opposite to superior unknown, who has remained glued to _Sir E.

Marshall-Hall_ throughout, and reminds me of Lady B. more than ever.

 

(_Mem_.: Speak to Mademoiselle about officiousness of thrusting

flowers into water unasked, just before wrapping up.)

 

Immerse myself in illustrated weekly. Am informed by it that Lord Toto

Finch (inset) is responsible for camera-study (herewith) of the Loveliest

Legs in Los Angeles, belonging to well-known English Society girl, near

relation (by the way) of famous racing peer, father of well-known Smart

Set twins (portrait overleaf).

 

(Query: Is our popular Press going to the dogs?)

 

Turn attention to short story, but give it up on being directed, just as

I become interested, to page XLVIIb, which I am quite unable to locate.

Become involved instead with suggestions for Christmas Gifts. I

want my gifts, the writer assures me, to be individual and yet

appropriate--beautiful, and yet enduring. Then why not Enamel

dressing-table set, at £94 16s. 4d. or Set of crystal-ware, exact replica

of early English cut-glass, at moderate price of £34 17s. 9d.?

 

Why not, indeed?

 

Am touched to discover further on, however, explicit reference to Giver

with Restricted Means--though even here, am compelled to differ from

author's definition of restricted means. Let originality of thought, she

says, add character to trifling offering. Would not many of my friends

welcome suggestion of a course of treatment--(six for 5 guineas)--at

Madame Dolly Varden's Beauty Parlour in Piccadilly to be placed to my

account?

 

Cannot visualise myself making this offer to our Vicar's wife, still less

her reception of it, and decide to confine myself to one-and-sixpenny

calendar with picture of sunset on Scaw Fell, as usual.

 

(Indulge, on the other hand, in a few moments' idle phantasy, in which I

suggest to Lady B. that she should accept from me as a graceful and

appropriate Christmas gift, a course of Reducing Exercises accompanied by

Soothing and Wrinkle-eradicating Face Massage.)

 

This imaginative exercise brought to a conclusion by arrival.

 

Obliged to take taxi from station, mainly owing to chrysanthemums (which

would not combine well with two suit-cases and fur coat on moving

stairway, which I distrust and dislike anyhow, and am only too apt to

make conspicuous failure of Stepping Off with Right Foot foremost)--but

also partly owing to fashionable locality of Rose's flat, miles removed

from any Underground.

 

Kindest welcome from dear Rose, who is most appreciative of

chrysanthemums. Refrain from mentioning unfortunate incident with elderly

gentleman in train.

 

_December 19th._--Find Christmas shopping very exhausting. Am

paralysed in the Army and Navy Stores on discovering that List of Xmas

Presents is lost, but eventually run it to earth in Children's Books

Department. While there choose book for dear Robin, and wish for the

hundredth time that Vicky had been less definite about wanting Toy

Greenhouse and _nothing else_. This apparently unprocurable.

(_Mem_.: Take early opportunity of looking up story of the Roc's Egg

to tell Vicky.)

 

Rose says "Try Selfridge's." I protest, but eventually go there, find

admirable--though expensive--Toy Greenhouse, and unpatriotically purchase

it at once. Decide not to tell Robert this.

 

Choose appropriate offerings for Rose, Mademoiselle, William, and

Angela--(who will be staying with us, so gifts must be above

calendar-mark)--and lesser trifles for everyone else. Unable to decide

between almost invisibly small diary, and really handsome card, for

Cissie Crabbe, but eventually settle on diary, as it will fit into

ordinary-sized envelope.

 

_December 20th._--Rose takes me to see St. John Ervine's play, and

am much amused. Overhear one lady in stalls ask another: Why don't

_you_ write a play, dear? Well, says the friend, it's so difficult,

what with one thing and another, to find _time_. Am staggered.

(Query: Could I write a play myself? Could we _all_ write plays, if

only we had the time? Reflect that St. J. E. lives in the same county as

myself, but feel that this does not constitute sound excuse for writing

to ask him how he finds the time to write plays.)

 

_December 22nd._--Return home. One bulb in partial flower, but not

satisfactory.

 

December 23rd.--Meet Robin at the Junction. He has lost his ticket,

parcel of sandwiches, and handkerchief, but produces large wooden

packing-case, into which little shelf has been wedged. Understand that

this represents result of Carpentry Class--expensive "extra" at

school--and is a Christmas present. Will no doubt appear on bill in due

course.

 

Robin says essential to get gramophone record called "Is Izzy Azzy Wozz?"

(_N.B._ Am often struck by disquieting thought that the dear

children are entirely devoid of any artistic feeling whatever, in art,

literature, or music. This conviction intensified after hearing "Is Izzy

Azzy Wozz?" rendered fourteen times running on the gramophone, after I

have succeeded in obtaining record.)

 

Much touched at enthusiastic greeting between Robin and Vicky.

Mademoiselle says, "Ah, c'est gentil!" and produces a handkerchief, which

I think exaggerated, especially as in half-an-hour's time she comes to me

with complaint that R. and V. have gone up into the rafters and are

shaking down plaster from nursery ceiling. Remonstrate with them from

below. They sing "Is Izzy Azzy Wozz?" Am distressed at this, as providing

fresh confirmation of painful conviction that neither has any ear for

music, nor ever will have.

 

Arrival of William and Angela, at half-past three. Should like to hurry

up tea, but feel that servants would be annoyed, so instead offer to show

them their rooms, which they know perfectly well already. We exchange

news about relations. Robin and Vicky appear, still singing "Is Izzy Azzy

Wozz?" Angela says that they have grown. Can see by her expression that

she thinks them odious, and very badly brought-up. She tells me about the

children in the last house she stayed at. All appear to have been

miracles of cleanliness, intelligence, and charm. A. also adds, most

unnecessarily, that they are musical, and play the piano nicely.

 

(_Mem_.: A meal the most satisfactory way of entertaining any guest.

Should much like to abridge the interval between tea and dinner--or else

to introduce supplementary collation in between.)

 

At dinner we talk again about relations, and ask one another if anything

is ever heard of poor Frederick, nowadays, and how Mollie's marriage is

turning out, and whether Grandmama is thinking of going to the East Coast

again this summer. Am annoyed because Robert and William sit on in the

dining-room until nearly ten o'clock, which makes the servants late.

 

_December 24th._--Take entire family to children's party at

neighbouring Rectory. Robin says Damn three times in the Rector's

hearing, an expression never used by him before or since, but apparently

reserved for this unsuitable occasion. Party otherwise highly successful,

except that I again meet recent arrival at the Grange, on whom I have not

yet called. She is a Mrs. Somers, and is said to keep Bees. Find myself

next to her at tea, but cannot think of anything to say about Bees,

except Does she _like_ them, which sounds like a bad riddle, so

leave it unsaid and talk about Preparatory Schools instead. (Am

interested to note that no two parents ever seem to have heard of one

another's Preparatory Schools. Query: Can this indicate an undue number

of these establishments throughout the country?)

 

After dinner, get presents ready for children's stockings. William

unfortunately steps on small glass article of doll's furniture intended

for Vicky, but handsomely offers a shilling in compensation, which I

refuse. Much time taken up in discussing this. At eleven P.M. children

still wide awake. Angela suggests Bridge and asks Who is that Mrs. Somers

we met at the Rectory, who seems to be interested in Bees? (A. evidently

more skilled than myself in social amenities, but do not make this

comment aloud.)

 

_Xmas Day._--Festive, but exhausting, Christmas. Robin and Vicky

delighted with everything, and spend much of the day eating. Vicky

presents' her Aunt Angela with small square of canvas on which blue

donkey is worked in cross-stitch. Do not know whether to apologise for

this or not, but eventually decide better to say nothing, and hint to

Mademoiselle that other design might have been preferable.

 

The children perhaps rather too much _en évidence_, as Angela,

towards tea-time, begins to tell me that the little Maitlands have such a

delightful nursery, and always spend entire day in it except when out for

long walks with governess and dogs.

 

William asks if that Mrs. Somers is one of the _Dorsetshire_ lot--a

woman who knows about Bees.

 

Make a note that I really must call on Mrs. S. early next week. Read up

something about Bees before going.

 

Turkey and plum-pudding cold in the evening, to give servants a rest.

Angela looks at bulbs, and says What made me think they would be in

flower for Christmas? Do not reply to this, but suggest early bed for us

all.

 

_December 27th._--Departure of William and Angela. Slight shock

administered at eleventh hour by Angela, who asks if I realise that

_she_ was winner of first prize in last week's _Time and Tide_

Competition, under the pseudonym of _Intelligensia_. Had naturally

no idea of this, but congratulate her, without mentioning that I entered

for same competition myself, without success.

 

(Query: Are Competition Editors always sound on questions of literary

merit? Judgement possibly becomes warped through overwork.)

 

Another children's party this afternoon, too large and elaborate. Mothers

stand about it in black hats and talk to one another about gardens,

books, and difficulty of getting servants to stay in the country. Tea

handed about the hall in a detached way, while children are herded into

another room. Vicky and Robin behave well, and I compliment them on the

way home, but am informed later by Mademoiselle that she has found large

collection of chocolate biscuits in pocket of Vicky's party-frock.

 

(_Mem_.: Would it be advisable to point out to Vicky that this

constitutes failure in intelligence, as well as in manners, hygiene, and

common honesty?)

 

 

         

 

To be continued

 

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